Bonding Help

Spirit Calling

If you are interested in starting relationships with spirits, this is what I have found works best for me. I am not saying this will work one hundred percent of the time or that this is the only way. This is what I do and seems to never fail.

Step 1: Find a conjurer that you are interested in using. As you are looking through various conjurers listen to your inner voice. You know the one deep down inside of you.

Step 2: For that conjurer, read about each spirit’s information. You shouldn’t just be looking at the pretty pictures.

Step 3: After you have read through every spirit’s information, walk away and do nothing for a few days.

Step 4: If you find over the next few days that a particular spirit keeps popping into your head, its more than likely calling to you.

Step 5: Purchase the spirit.

So, what if no spirit seems to be calling you from that conjurer? Move on to another conjurer and follow the same process. Eventually, you should come across a spirit that you cannot get out of your head.

Note: One should always listen to their inner voice, when choosing a spirit. Don’t let others make decisions for you. Deep down inside, you know what type of spirit is right for you. Your inner voice will help guide you to the best spirit.

Bonding Ritual

Usually, after a conjurer has completed the conjuration process, they will send you a small ritual to perform, which kind of seals the deal. The ritual can be something very small, to something that is much larger and more elaborate.

Regardless, a welcoming ritual should always be performed, when you are inviting a new spirit into your life. Really, it’s no different than when a friend comes over to your house. One will often offer a friend something to drink or eat, making them feel welcome. One should always do the same thing for a spirit or entity.

After you have performed the bonding ritual, sit silent for ten to twenty minutes in a meditative state. This is the time, when one is most apt to receive a response from the spirit. If after the bonding ritual, you do not receive any response from the spirit, repeat the ritual for the next few nights.

So why do I say repeat the ritual for the next few nights? Sometimes people have off days. They may be tired, sad, or just not feeling their best. Repeating the ritual helps to strengthen the bond between you and the spirit, highlighting their importance in your life.

Finally, always listen to your inner voice. If the conjurer tells you the spirit likes lilac incense, but you feel that rose is better, use rose. The spirit is going to help guide you as to what they really want or appreciate as gifts.

Gemstones

Another tool that one can use to help strengthen their spirit interactions are gemstones. Gemstones have the ability to provide energy to you and also to your spirits or entities. You can choose to wear gemstone rings, necklaces, or just carry the gemstones in your pocket.

Now I realize that gemstones can be very expensive; however, they don’t have to be. It is the properties of the stone that provide the benefits, not how the gemstone appears. Which means, that a rough or tumbled gemstone can be used, instead of something that is very fancy or expensive. Etsy is a perfect place to find rough or tumbled, inexpensive gemstones.

The one thing that is important, however, is the size of the gemstone. Yep, size does matter 😊. Larger gemstones help to provide more energy and stronger benefits. For example, if you had an amethyst that was as small as a speck of sand vs one that is the size of a quarter, the larger one will always impart stronger benefits to you and your spirits.

Regardless of the gemstone used, you do not have to worry about gemstones, repelling spirits that you are with. Once that spirit is bound to you, they receive the same benefits from the gemstones regardless of their species type. For example, even when I wear an amethyst, which helps to protect one from negative entities, it doesn’t repel the demons that are bound to me. I have found it helps to enhance their ability to interact with me.

Tattoos

One of the best ways to honor a particular spirit is by getting a tattoo. Tattoos have become much more mainstream and acceptable today vs. fifteen years ago. Even though they are much more acceptable, I would still not recommend a face tattoo.

I, myself, am covered in tattoos. It was something that I decided long ago that I was going to do. I realized that there is no better way to show my devotion than to permanently wear a spirit’s symbol.

However, The Goddess Hecate showed me that for a tattoo to have a powerful connection to a spirit, it must be composed of three things: a name (yes I am covered in names), a symbol, and a connection. I want to highlight; however, this is what Hecate told me, for my path.

So how do you chose the right tattoo? Look at many different images and then meditate on them, listening to your inner voice.

For example, look at some symbols for Lilith below

If you spent time meditating on these symbols for Lilith and none of these images seem too resonant with you, do not use them! A tattoo should be an image that feels right to you and the spirit that you are going to honor. No one person is a divine spokesman for a spirit, entity, or deity. Always listen to your inner voice!

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